Advice for dating someone in the military internet dating profiles for men
Elvina Lui is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in relationship counseling.
She received her Masters in Counseling from Western Seminary in 2007 and has been a certified MFT for over 7 years. "As soon as it is suspected that trauma happened, ask to be assessed for PTSD and get treatment.
Was overseas, got home and my house was empty, the car gone, bank accounts empty and the wife in another state to "visit her parents." Never saw anything I listed again.
To be honest, our problems went well beyond the Navy. Just don't make decisions based on feelings you have for someone else. Relationships come and go, but you're stuck with the military whether you like it or not.
I'm terrified that he will change, things will get weird between us after being apart, etc., but we both want to stay together and make it work.
My boyfriend is in the military, and he's not a bad person. He loves his job, and he aspires to be the best he can be for his soldiers. It makes me proud to watch him excel in something that he loves.
I realize that bad men are not specific to the military, it is just one of those professions that can really mold a person. What qualities/life choices/ etc do you think separate the good ones from the bad? If they gossip about their friends' wives/girfriends/SOs I would stay way.
Anyway, I've recently met a very nice guy, and now everyone around me including my parents are warning me and waiting for it all to blow up in my face. For some people the military is an extension of high school.
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It is easy to over-think your behavior when dating a military woman.
You need to learn to accept every aspect of your new relationship, especially the periods of distance.